David's Story

At 14, my close friends and parents (who weren't supposed to find out then, but, oh well) found out from me that I wasn't straight like everyone else (later I'd find out everyone else wasn't straight either but that's another story). At 17, I was out at school and everywhere else.

My school was small to say the least. There were 34 people in my graduating class; roughly 150 in the whole school. It was an interesting experience being "the gay guy." Before coming out I was called fag and harassed on a regular basis. I even had things thrown at me on occasion. Most of you probably know the routine.

After I came out it happened still, but less frequently ,and it didn't bother me as much. I know that isn't the most hope-giving statement in the world. Coming out is not a magic wand that makes it all better but it did help me. The people that liked me before they knew I was gay liked me after after as well. Eventually I made homecoming court and took my boyfriend to prom, which was fun.

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